Looking for Bondage Gear to Keep You in Control?

Whether you are a Fifty Shades of Grey fan or not, you have to admit there is something uber-sexy about a little bondage gear. After all, bondage gear comes in many forms and it can be as light or serious as you prefer. In bondage, taboos give way to limits and exploration goes as far as your safe word allows.

For those just starting to explore their own limits there several items you will want to include in your beginning arsenal of pleasure and pain-inducing bondage gear. How you use these items, and how often they are pulled out of the toy chest, are entirely up to you and your willing partner. Whether they are playfully applied or tease of a bit of darkness, you are in control.

Japanese Style Bondage Rope

Unlike the hardware store variety that so many housewives hustled to acquire after the Fifty Shades book, this Japanese Style Bondage Rope will neither chafe nor slip when used. With this 32 foot long rope you may explore simple wrist tying with your partner for slightly restrained play. Or you can get into Shibari for some serious domination and submission. How you use the rope is your decision. Knowing it will not splinter into your skin or cause rope burns is enough to relax and give some knots a try.

Nylon Braided Bull Whip

A little playful patter of this bull whip can be an incredible turn-on for your partner in the bedroom. Or take the activity into the secret den and work out some serious kinks. Like any bondage gear, how extreme the activity goes is all according to personal preferences. Along with constraints, a Nylon Braided Bull Whip is one of the first implements most burgeoning den masters or mistresses acquire. Just remember to go gently into that dark night, until you know how much your partner can take.

Ankle Cuffs

If you have a “runner” on your hands, you may need to make them behave and stay in their designated space. These Ankle Cuffs serve that purpose well. They will not be able to scamper away from your charms when appropriately cuffed. These can also be used as wrist restraints, doubling their usefulness as staples of your bondage gear.

Bondage Pleasure Set

For all of the starter equipment you need to gain control, this Bondage Pleasure Set measures up well. If you look at each piece with wonder and are unsure of how to get started, simply watch Secretary, a 2002 movie starring Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader. They will guide you through the initial motions and you can instinctively take it from there.

Forced Pleasure Belt

Coupled with the Original Wand and desired Wand attachments, the Forced Pleasure Belt will quickly become a tried-and-true favorite in your domination and submission play. Nothing says “control” like taking over your partner’s own physical functions with this leather bondage gear. Whether teasing or tortuous, this belt gives you complete control with the flick of an on/off switch.